help or not to help....

Have you ever thought that your decision was wrong?
You decided to help someone and then you had problems yourselve??

If yes - you are not alone. I have it often. My inability to say 'No, I can't, or I'd love to help you but it's inconvenient for me ' makes me sick. I frequently consider how to do this... but when I see someone in need or when someone ask me for help I just cannot refuse especially when I like the person.It's the same today.

I even started to doubt whether I finish my studies or not, because I always put others above my resposibilities - UNI. Then I can't look at my teachers eyes... I know I heve failed again...

So how to be a person of success rather than failer???

AB